That's Them
A people searchsite that exposes your name, address, phone, and relatives. Here's what they collect, how to opt out, and why it matters if you're on the job.
Visit That's ThemWhat That's Them collects
- Full name and aliases
- Current and prior addresses
- Cell and landline phone numbers
- Email addresses (often multiple)
- Approximate age and date of birth
- Vehicle registration data (including VIN where available)
- Relatives and household members
- IP address history (in some records)
How to opt out yourself
Direct opt-out: https://thatsthem.com/optout
- Open https://thatsthem.com/optout.
- Search your name on thatsthem.com to find your listing.
- Fill out the opt-out form with your details as they appear in the listing, then submit.
- Confirm through the email they send.
- They state most requests process within about 72 hours; third-party guides report it often runs one to two weeks.
- Afterward, run reverse lookups on each of your email addresses and phone numbers. That's Them indexes records several ways, and some versions may need a separate opt-out.
What That's Them knows about you
That's Them holds wider files than most people-search sites. Along with the usual name, address, phone, and relatives, it often lists several email addresses, vehicle registration data, and in some records IP-address history. Much of this shows on the free public listing without paying.
It pulls from public records, court aggregators, and commercial broker feeds. Its reverse lookups let anyone search by phone number, email address, street address, IP, or VIN and land on your profile.
Why it matters if you're on the job
The email aggregation is the biggest risk here. Most people have a personal email, a work email, and one or two old ones. That's Them stitches those to your name and home address on a single page.
That gives someone a starting point for a phishing attempt against your work account or your spouse's. It also points to your social-media accounts, which usually register under one of those emails.
The vehicle data is a separate problem. Make, model, and registration details tie a car to a home address and the people at it. That connects where you park to where you live.
How to opt out
The opt-out form is at thatsthem.com/optout. Search your name, submit the form with your details, and confirm through the email they send. They state most requests are processed within about 72 hours, but third-party removal guides report it often takes one to two weeks. Confirm the current opt-out URL and form before you rely on them, since brokers change these.
One catch: That's Them indexes records several ways, including by email, phone, and address. A single removal may not clear every version. After it processes, run reverse lookups on your email addresses and phone numbers. If your name and address still come back, file a separate opt-out for each.
The full step-by-step list is above.
How long until you're back
Listings like this tend to return. That's Them rebuilds its records from broker feeds and public records, so a profile can reappear after a removal. Records keyed to different identifiers can resurface on their own timing. Plan to check again rather than treat one removal as final.
What we do
We file the opt-out, confirm the verification email, and check for the versions keyed to your email, phone, and address. We keep checking, and when a listing comes back we file again. We run the same process across the broker and people-search sites we monitor, so you are not tracking each one yourself.
Doing this for one broker is straightforward. Doing it for 200, on a continuous basis, is what we do.
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