That's Them
A people searchsite that exposes your name, address, phone, and relatives. Here's what they collect, how to opt out, and why it matters if you're on the job.
What That's Them collects
- Full name and aliases
- Current and prior addresses
- Cell and landline phone numbers
- Email addresses (often multiple)
- Approximate age and date of birth
- Vehicle registrations (VIN data where available)
- Relatives and household members
- IP address history (in some records)
How to opt out yourself
Direct opt-out: https://thatsthem.com/optout
- Open https://thatsthem.com/optout in a private window.
- Search your name on the main That's Them site to find your record. Copy the URL.
- Paste the URL into the opt-out form.
- Provide an email address.
- Click the verification link in the email.
- Allow 48 hours for the listing to drop.
- Run a reverse lookup on each of your email addresses afterward — That's Them indexes by email and may keep email-keyed records that need separate removal.
What That's Them knows about you
That's Them holds wider files than most people-search sites. Beyond the standard name-address-phone-relatives, they often have multiple email addresses, vehicle registration data, and in some records, IP-address history. The free preview shows the breadth; you can see your full email list and vehicle on the public page without paying.
They source from public records, court aggregators, commercial broker feeds, and what looks like data-breach material that's washed back into the broker market. The IP address fields in particular suggest data they didn't get from the courthouse.
Why it matters if you're on the job
The email-address aggregation is the part that hurts. Most people have a personal email, a work email, and one or two old ones tied to old accounts. That's Them stitches all of those to your name and home address on one page.
For a sworn officer, that gives someone the keys to a credential-stuffing or phishing attempt aimed at your work email or your spouse's email. It also gives them a starting point to find your social-media accounts, which usually use one of those email addresses to register.
The vehicle data is its own threat. Make, model, color, and partial VIN gives someone enough to spot your car at the precinct, at the gym, or at home.
How to opt out
The opt-out form works. Search, claim, verify by email. The wrinkle is the email-keyed records. That's Them maintains separate records by email address, and a name-keyed removal doesn't automatically clear those.
After the name removal completes, check each of your email addresses through the That's Them reverse-email search. If your name and address still come back from any email, file separate opt-outs for each.
Steps are in the optOutSteps field above.
How long until you're back
Five months. That's Them rebuilds from broker feeds and public records. Email-keyed records re-sync independently and sometimes appear earlier than the name-keyed ones.
What we do that's faster
We file the name-keyed opt-out and check every known email-keyed record, click each verification email when it lands, and re-check every two weeks. When you re-list — name or email — we file again. Same drill across 200+ broker sites in parallel.
Doing this for one broker is straightforward. Doing it for 200, on a continuous basis, is what we do.
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